Sunday, 18 March 2012

Blessing in disguise

We have to always be thankful to Allah, as whatever He plans for us, there has to be 'hikmah'.


At first, we were quite puzzled as to why we, husband and I, were not given the chance to have a baby. While husband's twin brother is blessed with second and third child when they were not ready and we are more than happy to receive one.


But, after a while, 'kesedaran muncul'. We aren't supposed to question anything God has planned for us, like "Why he gets the baby and not us?" or "I've tried everything and it costs us a lot but nothing succeed yet. Why?".  What we are supposed to do is 'redha'. And be thankful. And always ask forgiveness from Him.


We figured out that if we have children, my husband wouldn't dare to start his own business. When my father was hospitalised for a month, it would have been a hassle for me to bring my mom back and forth to hospital and at that time, she wanted me and not my sister. Even though our heart broke every time we receive good news, we always know Allah has better plan for us.

5 comments:

  1. semua ada hikmah :) memang takleh question kerja Allah. dia yang Tahu, kita jangan persoalkan. kita cuma perlu cari. tapi kalau tak jumpa/takdapat, jangan persoalkan.
    My heart broke too, until now. To see and hear pregnancy news. Masih rasa sakit. The key is, serap rasa tu smua, then let it go. Tarik nafas, ia hilang :D its ok to be heartbroken but dont hold it for too long. let it go.
    Its just not the time yet.
    U are still taking metformin?

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  2. Hi JayFarhana,

    Thanks dear. I takboleh serap, nanti tak leh let go.

    True, just not the time yet.

    Metformin takde sebab Dr tak beri. Take care.

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    1. yeah i know its hard to do it, i sendri yg ckp pun, sbenanye susah nak buat, tapi thats the only choice i have. :( takpe lah be strong dear, kite diantara yang diuji Allah.
      i pun dah stop metformin sbb asik cirit birit je.

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    2. Haha only TTCians knows it kan?

      Memang kena keraskan hati. Insya Allah, our babies pun akan strong jug.

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  3. situasi sama macam yani!
    tahun lepas yani pun dok fikir nape lum ade rezeki anak sedangkan dah usaha macam-macam, tapi bila fikir2 balik, kalau Allah beri rezeki anak time yani sibuk uruskan mak yang baru potong kaki masa tu, mungkin yani tak boleh handle 2-2 keadaan. mana nak layankan muntah2 morning sickness, mana nak jaga dan uruskan mak, kan? skrang ni yani just dengar dan doakan yg terbaik je bila dengar org lain dah preggy. walaupun sebenarnya perit dalam hati nak terima berita2 macam tu saat kita mengharap sangat kita yang preggy, bukan org tu. takpe la, Allah mungkin ada sesuatu yang lebih baik untuk kita, cuma belum masanya...

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